Breakup tip #breakups #lovehurts #funny #lovesucks #single

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Question of the day 2/11/2020: Anticipation #questionoftheday #anticipation

I have a trip planned for Saturday to Nashville and it is a

SOLO TRIP!!!

No kids. No family. No toxic men that don’t want to commit and send nothing but mixed messages. Just me. I plan on taking tons of photos and doing a review of the hotel and the standup comic I’m seeing.

What are you anticipating?

It’s Tuesday and I need it to be Saturday.

I’m Back!!!!

It’s been a while since blogging but I’m back. There have been sooo many changes with me. Not really. I’m still unable to find love and keep making the same mistakes with the same guy. Sigh

I did change my hair color so that’s new. I plan on blogging several times a day for right now. I find that it helped me and my writing. And I just enjoyed it.

I plan on covering just that, stuff I enjoy. Stuff that makes me happy and my new adventures. I’m also going to talk about my depression, my kiddos, being a single parent, living on a farm, cooking, dating, etc…

I’m glad to be back and I look forward to getting back to writing. Until next time…

An open letter to single parents trying to date again #singleparents #datingagain

Dear single parents,

I won’t lie, it’s tough. I just realized that just recently. Well, it was more like a kick in the teeth. Someone that I was seeing broke it off with me. His reasoning was the real reason it feels like a kick in the teeth. He wasn’t comfortable with me having kiddos.

Well, I was completely honest from the get go. I didn’t have the kiddos hiding in the bushes getting ready to jump out and ambush him. He knew I had kiddos from the very beginning.

Also, he was not close to meeting my kiddos. Yes, we were seeing each other and went on vacation together, but our relationship was not to that point. He could have asked, but did not.

Be on guard when new people are coming into your life. Make sure you are honest from the start and let that person know that your children will always come first.

If you are rejected because you have kiddos, breathe. They are losing out on amazing people. There is someone out there for you and someone who will think your kiddos hung the moon.

 

Poetry in the morning #poetry #stillheartbroken #bearwithme

I woke up. How were you the first thing on my mind?

Did I dream of you last night? Or did I wake up wanting to have dreamt of you?

I saw you on the air last night. I was hoping you were a mess, but you looked amazing.

Perhaps today you will start to fade. Perhaps breathing will get easier today.

 

Please bear with the sappy poetry. This is just part of my processing sadness. Eventually the sappy poems will stop and I will get back to funny and cute haikus.