My Hero of the Day is …

My husband/ex-husband!!!

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The nature of our relationship is a little tricky. He and I are physically separated, but nothing has been filed. This has been the deal for several years.

Since separating, he and I have been best friends. We are friendly or both the kiddos and for ourselves. We married our best friends, but the marriage didn’t last. The friendship did.

I have lately been overextended with work, activities for the kids, and everything else. So, as of 8:15 pm last night, I had been signed up for helping to serve dinner at the church (yes, I go to church, and yes I’m active in said church, but I’m not super religious. That is for a later blog). I was also signed up for ringing the Salvation Army bell at the same time as dinner and my little kiddo was in a Christmas program at the church after dinner, but during the bell ringing.

Tonight is absolutely freezing, and my hub/ex-hub offered to take the older kiddo to ring the bell. He and the kid stood in the freezing cold, ringing a bell while I was nice and warm.

I will go more into separation in later blogs, but I would like to say thank you Joe. Now go get warm.

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Magic is in the air, it’s that special time of the year, where long ago we would of wished our little hearts out for things we wished to appear on Christmas morning, and now we probably feel as if that magic has vanished into thin air, that is not true, it is the way we think and do things that have changed, the basic’s of “magic” as we like to call it are still the same and always will be, it is how we view our ever changing life, that makes that change for us in how we think and what we feel are our possibilites, it was once said “Imagination, is the true magic “carpet”……………………….The problem very often is in, how life has treated us, or us life, depending on how you look at it, whether we have alot of happiness in your life, and how grateful we feel…

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